Episodes

Monday Dec 11, 2023
Episode 20 - Apologetics (Part 1)
Monday Dec 11, 2023
Monday Dec 11, 2023
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer begin an in-depth series of talks about Communication and Apologetics.
NOTE: This series was originally intended to be one of five, but at the time of this posting, this series is looking like it might be more like seven or eight episodes long. Tune in for another next week!

Thursday Nov 09, 2023
Episode 19 - Resilience
Thursday Nov 09, 2023
Thursday Nov 09, 2023
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer talk about resilience.
NOTE: This episode was originally slated to be part of a series of episodes to be released earlier this year. Due to schedule changes and other commitments, this series has been pushed off for the time being, so this episode will be stand-alone. In lieu of this, a new series on Apologetics will be released soon on a much more frequent basis in the coming weeks, stay tuned!

Monday Aug 15, 2022
Episode 18 - Interpersonal Communication
Monday Aug 15, 2022
Monday Aug 15, 2022
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer talk with each other about the things that we say to ourselves in our minds. What happens when that talk isn't working?
BONUS CONTENT: John and Mark share the same birthday. It's today, August 15th.

Monday Aug 08, 2022
Episode 17 - Negative Apologetics
Monday Aug 08, 2022
Monday Aug 08, 2022
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer explore "negative apologetics".
BONUS CONTENT: What does it mean to be a part of a community.

Monday Aug 01, 2022
Episode 16 - Conflict and Dialectics
Monday Aug 01, 2022
Monday Aug 01, 2022
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer discuss how to navigate conflict with the help of Relational Dialectics Theory.
BONUS CONTENT: John loses his train of thought multiple times.

Wednesday Jul 27, 2022
Episode 15 - Conversation and Speech Act Theory
Wednesday Jul 27, 2022
Wednesday Jul 27, 2022
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer have a conversation about conversation itself, and explore the usefulness of Speech Act Theory to understand the nuances that arise as a result of the natural indirectness that takes place in discourse.
BONUS CONTENT: Mark and John ask each other to elaborate on narcissism.

Friday Jan 15, 2021
Episode 14 - Listening (Part 2)
Friday Jan 15, 2021
Friday Jan 15, 2021
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer continue the discussion on listening, highlighting a few of the barriers that can get in the way, and identifying some strategies that can help you, too, be a better listener in your day to day life.
BONUS CONTENT: Weird feelings about the German language, a children's story, and a sad story about a specific child in a dystopian universe.

Thursday Dec 31, 2020
Episode 13 - Listening (Part 1)
Thursday Dec 31, 2020
Thursday Dec 31, 2020
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer begin a discussion on listening, exploring the ideas of a few scholars with thoughts around this important realm of communication.
BONUS CONTENT: A sitcom about car salesman?

Saturday Apr 04, 2020
Episode 12 - Empathy
Saturday Apr 04, 2020
Saturday Apr 04, 2020
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer discuss empathy. How does it relate to sympathy and perspective-taking? When is it called for, and when is it NOT called for?
BONUS CONTENT: A story about mugs.

Saturday Mar 28, 2020
Episode 11 - Culture
Saturday Mar 28, 2020
Saturday Mar 28, 2020
In this episode of "Where Two or Three", Mark Paustian and John Wildauer talk about culture. How do different cultures experience guilt and shame? Or justification and honor? A conversation guided by Hofstede's cultural dimensions theory.
BONUS CONTENT: Andrew Peterson's "resonator" and an intro to Russian idioms.